Sometimes change comes so fast that trying to keep others up to speed with who you’ve now become would prevent you from keeping up to speed with yourself.

So if you’ve tried contacting me recently, and haven’t gotten a response, it’s not because I don’t think you’re worth taking the time to respond to; it’s because the person you’re message was intended for no longer exists.

Recently, a good friend of mine, whom I hadn’t talked to in almost a month, messaged me. She’d messaged me a few weeks prior but I didn’t even bother to respond. The gargantuan task of trying to compress a month of extreme growth into something that could be digested in a single sitting sounded like an impossible task.

But 2,000+ words and an hour of non-stop typing later, that’s exactly what I’d done…
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I recently got my hands on a copy of The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Tim Ferriss.

The book includes two sections on 15 Minute Female Orgasms. Part Un is about facilitating them during sexual penetration, and recommends three different positions complete with illustrations. Part Deux involves a method of orgasmic exploration whereby the male (or whoever) strokes the female’s clitoris in a certain way for 15 minutes straight.

A few nights ago I tried out Part Un with a girl I’ve been having sex with for the last three months. Read More

Taking the time to sell me on something takes away from the time you have to give me. Taking the time to give me something takes time away from generating more of what you have to give.

Rather than selling others on what you want, use that process to bring more clarity to your desires. Rather than simply giving a gift, use that process to notice the gift that you are being.

When you focus on your desires, you imbue yourself with what drew you to them in the first place. When you focus on the gift that you are being, you become everything that you’re giving away.

Because being a gift takes away from nothing. And being yourself freely gifts everyone around you with the best of what you have to offer.

My dearest friend offered me the greatest gift just now. I don’t think either of us knew it at the start, but the gift she offered me was total freedom. It is a gift I was able receive fully, and I recorded (just about) my every response to it.

I literally peed myself while writing this post… Twice.

I bet if you choose to read along you’ll undoubtedly gain something wonderful from it.
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